Being the hotwife is a lifestyle, it is not about having sex but about living the benefits. Having the right attitude and sending the right signals to your husband or lover. It is all about control and having lots of it. I am his hotwife and he knows it just as he knows his place.

What is a hotwife in the first place? The definition might vary from person to person but the general idea is still the same. A hotwife is a wife that plays around with other men with the full knowledge of her hubby or boyfriend. His knowledge might go as far as actually encouraging her into enjoying her sexuality and explore with other men.

Why would a man allow his wife to fuck other men? This is a very big fantasy for many men that would like to share their wives with others and know she is enjoying having her pussy filled by a different guy. The reasons of motives might also vary, some like the idea of her enjoying a bigger cock, a younger guy, a more fit guy or simply the mere action of sharing her with another man which is a huge taboo amongst guys making this a very intense fantasy.

Why would a woman ever agree to be the hotwife? There are many reasons we like the idea. There is a huge amount of benefits from this and here are just a few. Enjoying a bigger, thicker, longer guy (ladies know exactly what i mean), NO strings attached sex, sex with a new partner which is always fantastic and exciting, picking the guy you want to fuck just because, having much more if not all of the control in the relationship when it comes to sex, having him right at the tip of your finger, bring you closer with your hubby or boyfriend. For starters this usually starts off as HIS fantasy and not the woman’s so we are just along for the ride but once convinced it is a hard to stop train because it is just great. Being the hotwife brings lovers together because of the amount of openness there must be between the two of you and openly talk about anything within the relationship makes it stronger. Knowing his fantasies and turning them into a reality is so much fun. Picking out a guy together for the woman to fuck is a good way to say this brings out the closeness in the relationship. It might sound like a crazy thing but it is not, it is bonding time, trust time, open speaking, his feelings and heart are in the hands of the hotwife. She can break it without a question but she chooses to do it the right way and he will love her forever. If the couple decides she gets to pick the guy she wants to fuck because she likes him then it has been pre worked out and the trust is never broken but even more excitement is added to the relationship. There are women that are completely against it from the get-go and many of you would agree with me as this is your fantasy but you don’t know how to get your wife to try. (this is another article that will come in time). 

What does he get out of having a hotwife? I can only answer this question from a woman’s standpoint but him expressing his feelings to me about the whole subject is a good way for me to inform my sweet readers that want to know more about my lifestyle. The look on his face when i walk the front door and he knows exactly what I was doing, if I had sex with another lover and he came inside, the naughtiness of the whole thing, the mere act of having a thong full of cum and the unexpected surprise. These are all factors of his fantasy and how it all began. Describing in great detail how exactly I was just fucking another guy for a few hours before he came a bunch of times and watching his eyes get bigger and his dick stick out of his pants hornier than ever. The sex after he slides himself into an already stretched pussy seems to be his favorite thing.

To me it is all about control, having him at my fingertips knowing the way he worships me and the ground I walk on while this whole thing happens. It has brought us in the relationship so much closer. We are still swingers don’t get me wrong, but there are times where he is simply not allowed to wander in to the basement cinema room because he know exactly what is going on there. He knows he will hear moaning and probably screams. We have bonded so much more as he knows if I want to play around we will talk bout it and bring out my inner hotwife. The sex we have after another guy playtime is simply incredible. Lasting for hours he just has the craziest raging erections from so much excitement and so do I because it has naughty written all over it. You might call me a pleasure seeker but the truth is I love exploring my sexuality. I am an erotic blogger and this blog was started with a single purpose. To share my adventures, my thoughts, my experiences with the rest of the world.

There are a ton of stories for me to share with the class but those will come in due time. If you have any questions about the lifestyle you can always e-mail them to me and I will try to answer them in a post at some point. (PS. NO I will not sleep with guys from the internet, I might be a hotwife and a swinger but I must first have a connection with you. Any other questions will be answered freely). 


Emily Salazar. 

6 Responses to The Hotwife
  1. October 7, 2014 at 8:11 am

    Hello i m niccoló and i want luck and kiss your feet . can you go in viareggio (italy) for this

  2. October 16, 2014 at 8:19 am

    Hola goddess,
    As always, we love your thoughts and stories. This subject in particular! Waiting for the next fabulous addition to your blog!
    Licks and besos,

  3. September 13, 2015 at 3:21 am

    Hi Emily
    I’m looking forward to your post about how to explain the benefits of being a hotwife to the wife. She thinks it would wreck our marriage & she doesn’t believe that I will be able to deal with the strong emotions when she does it.
    I’m making progress (hotwife “training” for 1 year already), confession about the fantasy is done and everything.


    P.S. I’m a fan of you & love reading this blog!

  4. July 4, 2016 at 9:19 am

    Do you ever cuckold you husband by making him watch?

    • July 5, 2016 at 8:23 am

      Lol absolutely, he has to know who’s the boss and who gets all the pleasure.

  5. October 13, 2016 at 9:27 pm

    Goddess Emily,

    Could you email me at ? Can’t via Twitter anymore and I wanted to ask you some things.

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