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As most of us realize by now guys come with a variety of package sizes. From micro penises all the way to OMG penises that will send you running away from the room, guys dicks come in all sizes and us ladies usually find ways to handle them. The problem is that handling such big cocks can come with a trade of, pain. This is why I am writing this post based on a collection of personal experiences and MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION. For my extra sensitive ladies and guys out there this does not mean you must like big cocks as well 😉 it is just a personal preference.

As you can imagine some of us love to feel the power and stretch of a big dick, the way our very sensitive nerves expand as their thick mushroom heads make their way into spots others simply can’t reach. This doesn’t mean a smaller penis can satisfy a lady but it does mean that if A. if she is into big cocks it is simply her fetish and it will rock her world even more and B. if he knows how to handle himself in the bed, then well it’ll be a fun encounter.

The first thing I must emphasize for the ladies that happen to unzip his pants and find yourself staring into the eye of a forearm sized monster cock is simply, get turned on. There is tip that can help you more than this in itself because of the extreme changes in anatomy and body signals being sent. For simplicity sake we will skip to the basic of signals and this is increased blood flow sent to the vaginal areas causing swelling of the clitoris and lubrication production. The excitement causes the vagina to become more stretchy and able to cope with a penis of a given size and a very handy body function if you are holding a huge cock in your hands, erect and ready to rip you in half lol.

So to recap, get turned on. If the guy has extra sexy abs, tell him to take his shirt off or if he has big arms an you like that then have him caress you while you touch his body and just feel his skin on yours. The point is to utilize every bit of attraction towards the guy in your advantage, whether it is muscles, voice, caressing, touching, the way he kisses you or even the big cock in itself.

This article does not refer to how to give him a blow job, rather how to handle him without pain. So at some point after some good foreplay although you are lubed up and your vagina has most likely stretched out deeper, it can still hurt. KY jelly, Astrolube or any other water based type lube so that it doesn’t affect the condoms integrity. There is a difference from feeling him go in and out as your vagina is trying to clutch him from slipping with your own body lube than feeling him slide in and out in a slippery type of way as your pussy is being sent into ecstasy. Sit on top of him and straddle it as it gives you excellent control of how deep he can go, this is useful only if you have already become stretched enough to handle the thickness and length is the issue. This position will give you every advantage of having a guy with a huge cock and still control how deep you want him in you. I usually like to start off easy and maybe let my body sit half way on him as i ride him up and down and the more turned on I get and closer to an orgasm, the more I let my body sit deeper into his cock. Not only will it help your vagina fit him by going deeper, but it will start to send you into a massive orgasm that usually ends up in squirting. If it just isn’t possible to fit him all the way then doggie style give him the control, careful because some guys can get extremely turned on by watching their lady bent over and they go full balls to the clit and I can tell you that a poked cervix is only pleasurable for some but not many.

In this case turn your body SLIGHTLY to one side enabling him to slide deep but you can still control how deep by turning your body a little bit. This effect controls his stroke as his body hits one of your ass cheeks rather than a full center thrusting and possibly making you uncomfortable. It will allow for him to feel pleasure and you as well although some of his cock won’t be able to fit inside most of their pleasure is at the head. If you happen to have a guy that is into seeing his giant member inside of your little body lol then you must simply tell his ass off and tell him YOU are in control of the situation thus showing him who is the boss. Doggie style also gives you access to cup his balls from the bottom as he is fucking you, now this is a careful stage because you cannot just hold them in your hand as he is pushing in and out and it can hurt him and also if you like me usually have very long nails. A scratch on the wrong end can cause lots of pain or simply as he is thrusting you can scratch your own clitoris… ask me how i know.

If the guy is simply just oversized and OMG lol then you can try the spooning position that enables him to penetrate you from the back (in your pussy), this takes away lots of the size in the distance from his body, your ass and your pussy. If you have quite the big booty then he’ll have less length by the time it gets to your pussy as it has more travel. This position is probably one of my favorite ones because you can still control the depth by arching your body, an arch forward will be less deep and an arch backwards or towards him will give you a longer stroke. It also give him full access to caressing your boobs and play with your nipples while kissing your neck from the back or any of the combinations. It is simply enjoyable and although possible with a smaller penis type of guy it will be a little harder to perform if he isn’t huge. All of these tips help with guys in various size ranges as some of us like different lengths and thicknesses, but once again and to emphasize. It all comes down to lube, being turned on and ladies please always use a condom if you aren’t exclusive with the guy.

Emily Salazar.

One Response to How to handle a guy with a big cock without pain
  1. February 16, 2016 at 8:45 pm

    Thanks Emily! Have to test this out Saturday with my date!!

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