“Wow you have a really big penis” was probably the first thing I remember saying to my first boyfriend when he took it out as we were parked behind the movie theater on that first date. Our conversation went more like “no, its just normal why don’t you just kiss it?” he said, i laughed and told him “yea, that thing won’t fit in my mouth” Funny thing is after that I knew what I liked and exactly how penis size does matter. A quick feel between my legs told me I was completely wet and probably needed to get my thong in the dryer lol. Look guys, I am writing this article about the whole penis size does matter to women forever existent debate because it is the truth. I know some men will fully disagree with me but I am stating my personal opinion, preference and some research studies found. Sadly the truth is when a girl whether your wife, girlfriend or just a hook up tells you “its ok baby, size doesn’t matter its not the size of the boat….” well it does. We are very emotional and caring beings and want to avoid hurting feelings at all cost, unless you’ve reached a stage like mine where I just let it go and go full fledge bitch mode lmao.

Being as sexually active as I am, you can imagine the different ranges of sizes i’ve had. Big dicks, small ones, thick and thin, i’ve even had a micro penis (yea idk wtf that was), truth of the matter is I have experienced most of them and judge accordingly. Before I started denying guys with smaller penises sex, I did try them as you know don’t knock it till you try it mentality. Well sadly it was just not the same, from a visual attractiveness point of view or a full feeling perspective. Seeing a man standing in front of you with a huge dick is simply a visual turn on, without a single touch you know that is plain sexy. It can be sometimes overwhelming because it can be maybe too big and you know how hard (no pun intended) that is going to be to enjoy, but once accommodated you’ll be screaming a Katy Perry song. “You are just saying that because you are probably so stretched out by now…” you might be thinking, but the truth is vaginas accommodate to the shapes inside of them. After having giving birth a woman’s vagina is made to go back to normal within a few months. There are no guys with 8 lbs cocks out there are there? well if vaginas did not go back to normal then women would be doomed after giving birth lol. Having an exboyfriend with a huge cock and then dating a guy with a smaller penis will feel different within the first months. That being said after a few months that penis will start to feel like the new norm and your vagina will start to accommodate him and become smaller to fit his penis better. It is a memory tissue we all have as females. So vaginal size is not the issue, but time.

Penis size does matter because of many aspects:

  • Visually appealing
  • That full feeling
  • Hitting spots other guys can’t reach
  • Men with bigger dicks are generally given more self confidence (an added plus for a female)
  • Stretching the walls of the vagina better. (nerve endings feel more pressure, therefore sending more pleasure signals to our brains)



Us women overall have always felt attracted to the power houses, starting from the caveman back in the day. The powerful guy dominant in every way, strong armed his way into your heart and had sex with you to mate for the sake of the species. Ever wondered why we like men with muscles? because we have a need to feel safe and be with the guy that can provide that in a subconscious level. A guy with a bigger penis enhances the possibility of better reproduction and in a deeper state of mind, one that we cannot perceive we crave that. Men are attracted to women with wider hips because they are child bearing just as bigger boobs. We are intelligent beings but still go back to our primitive minds, the one that helps us make decisions based on things without making it self known. An article on NBCnews in 2013 posted a study made in an Australian National University where a group of women  (105) averaging the age of 26. They showed the women computer generated male figures all unique and ranging from different body shapes, sizes, shoulder width, penis size, length, girth, tall men and short alike. all throughout about 49 different computer generated models. These women were given a number from 1 to 7 to rate the men as their sexual partner of preference.

“As past studies have shown, women prefer tall men with broad shoulders and narrow hips, like an Olympic swimmer. But when Mautz controlled for those variables, it turned out that penis size (overall length and girth) was about as important as stature.” (NBCNews, 2013).  “As you increase penis size, the amount of attractiveness scores gets bigger in a linear fashion, he explained, until 7.6 centimeters, or 3 inches. After three inches, attractiveness still increased, but in smaller increments. Not only were the ratings higher, but the women also spent more time gazing at the generously endowed figures, a sign they preferred looking at them as opposed to figures with smaller penises.” (NBCNews 2013).

Naturally women are more prone to want a guy with a huge bulge between his legs. In nature it is very hard to get exactly what you want. There are men of all shapes, sizes, thicknesses. Women who have already experienced larger and well endowed men know exactly what I am talking about (excluding technique, explained later). Guys with big cocks are simply more prone to be able to hit those spots with ease and make you twitch in the bed giving you that orgasm faster and harder. A guy that goes slow and teases that spot with ease only to give it to you rough and hard when you are about to orgasm can make you squirt and probably ruin all of your bed sheets. A guy that has a smaller penis and is going full speed and hard against that same spot won’t be able to reach it, and if he ever does he won’t be able to turn it up to 10 once you are about to orgasm making him a tad less adequate than the first guy. Both caused an orgasm, but only one had enough inches left for more insertion and pressure against a certain part whether that is the cervix, G spot, or simply stretching the walls of the vagina.


In another article by NBCNews once again, this one written in 2012 they discuss how penis size does matter when it comes to types of orgasms. “Defining ‘average’ as the length of a 20-pound banknote or U.S. dollar bill, which are 5.8 inches (14.9 cm) and 6.1 inches (15.5 cm) long, respectively, the researchers asked women if they were more likely to orgasm vaginally with a longer-than-average or shorter-than-average penis. They found that 160 of the women experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had enough sexual partners to compare size experiences. Of these, 33.8 percent preferred longer-than-average penises, 60 percent said size made no difference and 6.3 percent said longer was less pleasurable than shorter.
Supporting the hypothesis that size matters, Brody and his colleagues found the women who reported the highest number of vaginal orgasms in the past month were most likely to say that longer was better.”(NBCNews, 2012). 
Although the numbers are not majority, there is quite a big number that prefers the bigger side of life. I do fall within those women that find larger penises more attractive and overall more pleasurable. When i say certain positions I mean guys with smaller penises will not be able to perform certain things that are unique orgasm inducers. Having him lay on his back and you reverse cowgirl him leaning back with his cock inside of you thrusting hard and fast against your G-Spot can cause the biggest gushing orgasm and most likely squirting moment of your life. I know this because this happens often to me and I do love this position. Having a well endowed partner is key for this position because the length required for him to not slip out must be greater than the gap between you and him. A longer shaft gives him the advantage to have you go even higher up and down making each thrust longer, meaning longer travel thus more pleasure on each thrust. Every time the head of his penis hits your G-Spot there will be a wave of pleasure that takes over your entire body making your legs weaker. Ultimately making you weak enough to make sure you hold yourself up by your arms only and having him push his cock hard and fast against that spot until you collapse from a whole body orgasm. It is great, if you haven’t done it i quite recommend it.
As i said before it is not all about size, there are other factors involved such as technique. Having a huge “schlong”, cock, dick, shaft or whatever else you want to call it does not give you automatic amazingness lol. It gives you an advantage yes, but it does not give you automatic technique. A good fuck is one that switches it up from time to time avoiding for it to become boring. A guy that can last long and that can make you orgasm multiple times without cuming or maybe letting go and recover quick enough for round 2. A good technique is one that is not one speed, one motion, and done. It is one that will move slowly as he reads your movements to ensure you are liking what he is doing, one that will have his hips in tune with yours and will caress your body with his hands as his penis is going in and out of you. One that can tell if you like your hair pulled or if you like to control him. A guy that can switch it up from slow to fast to slow to real slow, then take it out and kiss your whole body, lick your toes and admire you while your vagina is literally throbbing because its so horny and then he just pushes it inside and thrusts so hard it hurts but you can’t take it any more and sends you to an orgasm that will reach jupiter without a spaceship making your neighbors think you are getting murdered because your screams are so loud, that is a good partner.
Well and that is my little research, take it for what it is. I’ve had my shares of experiences and know my self. I cannot speak for your wife, your girlfriend or your significant other but I can tell you somewhere along the way you were told size is not important and somewhere along the way one of those someones lied. Thats all i gotta say. Many kisses to all my followers and  readers alike and as always will continue to post my modeling shots here 😉
Emily Salazar. 
9 Responses to Penis Size Does Matter
  1. May 23, 2014 at 11:56 pm

    it definitely does, and my promiscuous ex let me in on that secret as well. Girls with experience will stop dating guys with small ones. Guys with small dicks don’t get texts like “can you come over and fuck me? you can leave after if you want” lol

    • May 24, 2014 at 12:11 pm

      It’s funny you should say that cause I’ve made that phone call many times before hahahaha I laughed so hard when I read it because I literally had a guy I just wanted to fuck. I would tell him I just rented some new movie or something just to get him over and once i would cum id tell him he can leave lmao. Such is life

      • May 24, 2014 at 4:33 pm

        I was a naive military guy from the south stationed in a big US city, luckily she explained to me how sex and women work in the real world. The funny part is I went to college after being in the military… kid in a candy store. I felt like the big bad wolf surrounded by little red riding hoods lol.

  2. May 25, 2014 at 8:29 am

    Of course it does, but what purpose does this serve? it’s not like a man with a small penis can do anything about it. Is your goal just to shatter their hope? Lol. Women get all bent out of shape when men want big tits but we can do something about that relatively easy. I’m sure many of your fans have small dicks.

    • May 25, 2014 at 8:40 am

      I am sure some of them do, that I happen to know for sure actually. But they know I love them. Knowledge can help them become better in bed by mastering other skills and use of toys so their wives and gfs are happier. I’ve met men with 5″ dicks that think they are huge and they just pound and pound but where is the skill? If you know you are within the smaller side of life then becoming a good pussy eater can make things so much better. I personally don’t really sleep with men with small penises anymore, it might sound like the most superficial and bitchy thing to do but I am as honest and open about sex as I can be. I enjoy a big cock just as much as the next girl but I make it a point to keep my pleasure with priority over anyone else’s. I am bossy in bed and a guy with a small dick just won’t cut it for me. Some of them won’t get their hopes shattered as you say, If they are cute enough a nice handjob or bj will make them happier than you might imagine, trust me. 2 minutes and they cum lmao but sometimes as a girl u just gotta say no u know. I appreciate your comment on my page, I would love to hear your opinion because you being up a great point.

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    June 2, 2014 at 10:17 am

    I’m just happy to see NBC investing their research efforts into things that matter….instead of spurious studies like why funding for school lunches should be cut. 😉

    • June 2, 2014 at 10:38 pm

      hahahahah. I agree lol. Making ladies happy makes husbands happy and everyone is happy 😉 oh wait small penises husbands won’t b happy

  4. April 9, 2015 at 6:38 am

    Hi Applegurl 🙂

    How would you personally feel about my penis – 7″x4.9″?
    I would like if it was thicker.
    I have a penis extension, which makes me about 8″x6.5″ and feels pretty real.
    Would you use one that felt real? Or what about if ur average or only slightly above average boyfriend used a penis’extender and/or let you have sex with a well endowed man sometimes?

    • April 9, 2015 at 6:45 am

      Honestly I have never ever had that happen to me. I mean the guys I play with are either incredibly large and the ones I find that are below average I just don’t play with. I’m honest with them and a cute guy gets a blow job but my fetish is large penises. As for your question the guy I’m with is on the bigger side of that penis sleeve. He is at 8.5 so I’m used to his size, but I do have to say there is such a thing as too big tho. I think if the guy was super super cute and he knew how to play with his cock maybe we would try a sleeve to see how it worked but it would have to be on there firm as the real thing lol.

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